Dr. JoNeil Conley
Helping Nurses REVIVE!
Dr. JoNeil Conley
Helping Nurses Love Nursing Again
You’ve spent your career caring for others—through long shifts, heartbreaking moments, and relentless pressure. But who’s caring for you? Here, we hold space for the nurses who feel exhausted, unseen, and worn down by the weight of compassion fatigue, burnout, moral injury, and stress—what I call COBUMS. This is your place to rest, reconnect with your purpose, and reclaim your joy. You don’t need to be more resilient—you already are. It’s time for healing, hope, and a new way forward.
At REVIVE, we don’t throw around empty words like "self-care"
or ask you to be more resilient.
Instead, we offer you real CPR:
Compassion for your journey
Permission to pause, feel, and heal
Reconnection to the you underneath the scrub
I work with nurses who are exhausted from giving too much for too long—
those navigating the deep waters of compassion fatigue,
burnout, moral injury, and stress (COBUMS).
And those who. have been bullied by colleagues, leaders, or others!
If you’re ready to:
I support those who feel stuck, silenced, or shaken by bullying, toxic work environments, or the invisible weight of always being the strong one. Through coaching, tools like the Meanness Matrix™, and programs like Revive Nursing: CPR for the Nurses' Soul, I help you reconnect with your purpose, reclaim your power, and rise—without sacrificing your well-being.
I work with women who are so ambitious, and care so much about other people that you’ve likely gone and forgotten yourself.
If you’re ready to:
Whether you're a nurse navigating a major life shift, recovering from burnout, or simply feeling numb from the daily grind—you don’t have to keep carrying it all alone.
Inside REVIVE: CPR for the Nurses’ Soul,
I’ll help you reconnect with the part of you that still knows who you are beneath the exhaustion.
Together, we’ll gently reclaim your power from the inside out—
one breath, one boundary, one brave step at a time.
Whether you are navigating a major life transition, recovering from burnout, or simply feeling stuck, my goal is to help you reclaim your power from the inside out.
Why Tune into Dr. JoNeil?
Reflect. Reclaim. REVIVE.
Because healing the healer starts with coming home to yourself.
Before the burnout. Before the moral injury. Before the broken systems and impossible expectations—you had a reason for becoming a nurse. A reason that lived deep in your heart.
In REVIVE: CPR for the Nurses’ Soul, we gently return to that place. Not to pressure you into “remembering your why” in a way that adds guilt, but to reconnect you with the spark that first called you into this sacred work.
Together, we’ll explore how the day-to-day demands may have buried your joy, silenced your voice, or made you question your worth. This is your space to get quiet, to reflect, and to rediscover the parts of you that never left—only got lost in the noise.
Because purpose isn’t a performance. It’s a remembering.
Reclaim Practical Tools That Work
This isn’t about adding more to your plate. It’s about tools that lift the weight.
You’re already carrying enough—emotionally, physically, spiritually. You don’t need another checklist or one more thing to “fix.” What you do need are tools that fit into the life you’re already living, not ones that demand more from you when you’re already running on empty.
From Emotional PPE practices that help you set boundaries without guilt, to simple mindset shifts that re-center you in the middle of chaos, we focus on real, doable strategies you can reach for in the moment—not just on your best days, but especially on your hardest ones.
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REVIVE: CPR for the Nurses’ Soul:
You don’t need fixing—you need reviving.
You’ve been carrying too much for too long—charting through tears, staying late without thanks, and holding space for everyone but yourself. It's not weakness. It's wear and tear on your spirit.
Through coaching, community, and conversations that go deeper than surface-level solutions, we nurture your emotional well-being, restore your confidence, and help you breathe again—body, mind, and heart.
Why Tune into Dr. JoNeil?
Reflect. Reclaim. REVIVE.
Because healing the healer starts with coming home to yourself.
Reflect on your Purpose
Before the burnout. Before the moral injury. Before the broken systems and impossible expectations—you had a reason for becoming a nurse. A reason that lived deep in your heart.
In REVIVE: CPR for the Nurses’ Soul, we gently return to that place. Not to pressure you into “remembering your why” in a way that adds guilt, but to reconnect you with the spark that first called you into this sacred work.
Together, we’ll explore how the day-to-day demands may have buried your joy, silenced your voice, or made you question your worth. This is your space to get quiet, to reflect, and to rediscover the parts of you that never left—only got lost in the noise.
Because purpose isn’t a performance. It’s a remembering.
Reclaim Practical Tools That Work
This isn’t about adding more to your plate. It’s about tools that lift the weight. You’re already carrying enough—emotionally, physically, spiritually. You don’t need another checklist or one more thing to “fix.” What you do need are tools that fit into the life you’re already living, not ones that demand more from you when you’re already running on empty.
From Emotional PPE practices that help you set boundaries without guilt, to simple mindset shifts that re-center you in the middle of chaos, we focus on real, doable strategies you can reach for in the moment—not just on your best days, but especially on your hardest ones
REVIVE: CPR for the Nurses' Soul
You don’t need fixing—you need reviving. You’ve been carrying too much for too long—charting through tears, staying late without thanks, and holding space for everyone but yourself. It's not weakness. It's wear and tear on your spirit.
Through coaching, community, and conversations that go deeper than surface-level solutions, we nurture your emotional well-being, restore your confidence, and help you breathe again—body, mind, and heart.
Step out of survival mode and into your own power—grounded, calm, and clear.
Inside REVIVE: CPR for the Nurses’ Soul, we focus on cultivating compassion for yourself, standing steady in hard moments, and remembering who you are beneath the pressure.
Together, we’ll unlock your inner strength and create a vision of joy, peace, and purpose—on your terms.
This is your invitation to begin again.
Your soul knows the way. Let’s walk it together.
Empower yourself to embody control, compassion, and resilience in every situation
you encounter.
Let’s focus on unlocking your inner strength and developing a clear vision of joy and success on your terms.
Your roadmap to growth starts here.
I’m a doctor—but not the kind who writes prescriptions.
I hold a Doctorate in Management and Organizational Leadership, and I’ve been a nurse for nearly 50 years. I’ve walked hospital hallways at 2 a.m., led teams through crisis, and carried more heartbreak than I care to admit. I’ve also been bullied, broken down, and burned out. That’s why I created REVIVE: CPR for the Nurses’ Soul—because I know what it feels like to lose yourself in the very profession you once loved.
Today, I serve as a Speaker, Healer, Educator, and Empowerment Coach, helping nurses who are tired, disillusioned, and done—but not gone.
Here’s how I support them in REVIVING:
Empowerment Through Storytelling: I don’t preach—I share. I use my real-life experiences with bullying, burnout, breast cancer survival, and rebuilding after loss to connect with nurses on a human level. My journey, told with authenticity and often a dose of humor, reminds others: You’re not alone—and you’re not broken. You’re simply overdue for healing.
Healing from Hidden Wounds: As a Trauma-Aware Coach, I understand the deeper layers of COBUMS—Compassion Fatigue, Burnout, Moral Injury, and Stress. I offer a compassionate, judgment-free space where nurses can process their pain, unlearn toxic survival patterns, and begin to feel again—safely and with support.
Healing Creating Comminity and Belonging: Whether through the REVIVE membership, the Scrubbed Raw Rebellion community, or monthly REVIVE: Live gatherings, I foster connection. Because healing isn’t a solo journey—and nurses need each other now more than ever. In these safe spaces, we laugh, cry, learn, and most of all, remember what it feels like to be seen.
This isn’t about bouncing back.
It’s about returning to yourself—with compassion, courage, and community.
If your soul feels scrubbed raw, if you’re barely holding it together behind the mask, this is your sign:
It’s time to Reflect. Reclaim. REVIVE.
Many nurses are holding it all together on the outside—charting, caregiving, managing the chaos—
but behind the mask, they’re exhausted, emotionally spent, and silently unraveling.
You’ve been strong for everyone else.
You’ve over-functioned, over-given, and overextended yourself in a system that rarely gives back.
You’ve been rescuing others for so long, you’ve forgotten how to reach for help.
But here’s the truth:
You don’t have to find your way back to yourself alone.
Inside REVIVE: CPR for the Nurses’ Soul, we make space for you to unmask, exhale, and heal.
Empowerment doesn’t start with doing more. It starts with saying yes to yourself—
yes to guidance, yes to support, yes to being held for once.
The version of you that feels alive, light, and whole again?
She’s still in there.
And she’s ready to come back.
Many women today are high-achieving, highly masking, and hyper
independent. We are spending so much time on safeguarding, rescuing, and
pleasing others in all the roles that we play, that it can end up feeling isolating
and impossible to ask for help.
You don't have to navigate coming back to yourself alone.
Empowerment starts by saying "yes" to yourself, and "yes" to welcoming in
guidance, help and community.
Your best self is waiting. Ready to meet her?
Hello, I'm Dr. Joneil Conley,
Hello! I’m Dr. JoNeil Conley, and my journey has been anything but ordinary. Growing up, I dreamed of getting married, having babies, baking cookies, and living "happily ever after." But life, God, and the Universe had other plans for me.
I did get married, but it didn’t turn out as I had hoped. However, I’m blessed with a wonderful daughter, a bright light in my life. I also faced a battle with breast cancer, and I’m grateful to say that 33 years later, I’m still here and thriving.
My life has had its share of challenges, including being bullied in many areas of my life, which inspired me to focus my doctoral dissertation on the topic of bullying. I also experienced the profound loss of both my parents within just 13 months of each other.
Despite these hardships, I’ve learned to embrace the unexpected turns and grow stronger with each experience. As a certified life coach through CoachU, BOLD, BARE, and Avalon Empowerment, I’m passionate about helping others navigate their own life challenges and discover their inner resilience AND JOY.
I’m here to empower you, help you find clarity in your journey, and support you in creating a life that feels authentic and fulfilling. Together, we can turn life’s unexpected plans into opportunities for growth, happiness, and JOY!
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ABOUT YOUR COACH
Hello, I'm Dr. Joneil Conley,
Hello, I'm Dr. Joneil Conley,
Nurse. Coach. Bullyologist
I didn’t plan to start a movement—I planned to bake cookies, raise babies, and live the “happily ever after” I dreamed about as a little girl.
But life, God, and the Universe had a different kind of story in mind.
Yes, I got married—but it didn’t look like the fairy tale.
Yes, I became a mother—and my daughter remains one of my greatest joys.
Yes, I survived breast cancer—and 33 years later, I’m still here, still healing, still growing.
I've walked through deep grief, having lost both of my parents just thirteen months apart. I've stood in operating rooms and classrooms, and I’ve felt the sting of being bullied, silenced, and dismissed—especially in the spaces where I was supposed to feel safe.
That pain became purpose.
It fueled my doctoral research on bullying in the operating room.
It shaped my voice as a leader.
And it led to the creation of REVIVE: CPR for the Nurses’ Soul—a movement to heal the healers.!
Why I Do This Work
Because I’ve been there.
Because I know what it feels like to pour out everything you have for others and still feel unseen.
Because I believe nurses deserve spaces where they don’t have to be strong all the time.
As a certified Coach through CoachU, BOLD, BARE, and Avalon Empowerment, I bring heart, humor, and hard-earned wisdom into every room I enter. I coach, I speak, I create tools and sacred spaces that help nurses come back to themselves—gently, powerfully, and without apology.
This isn’t just about finding joy.
It’s about reclaiming it—in the middle of your story, not just at the end.
I’m here to walk with you.
To reflect, reclaim, and REVIVE—together.
Helping Nurses REVIVE
CPR for the Nurses' Soul
Helping REVIVE Nurses
CPR for the Soul
Whether you’re craving support, clarity, or just someone who truly understands the weight you’re carrying—
I’m here.
Inside REVIVE: CPR for the Nurses’ Soul, we’ll walk together through the messy middle, gently uncovering the joy, peace, and power that have always been yours—just buried beneath the burnout.
You don’t have to do this alone.
Let’s breathe life back into the parts of you that feel forgotten.
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Hello, I'm Dr. Joneil Conley,
Hello, I'm Dr. Joneil Conley,
Nurse. Coach. Bullyologist
I didn’t plan to start a movement—I planned to bake cookies, raise babies, and live the “happily ever after” I dreamed about as a little girl.
But life, God, and the Universe had a different kind of story in mind.
Yes, I got married—but it didn’t look like the fairy tale. Yes, I became a mother—and my daughter remains one of my greatest joys. Yes, I survived breast cancer—and 33 years later, I’m still here, still healing, still growing.
I've walked through deep grief, having lost both of my parents just thirteen months apart. I've stood in operating rooms and classrooms, and I’ve felt the sting of being bullied, silenced, and dismissed—especially in the spaces where I was supposed to feel safe.
That pain became purpose. It fueled my doctoral research on bullying in the operating room. It shaped my voice as a leader. And it led to the creation of REVIVE: CPR for the Nurses’ Soul—a movement to heal the healers.!
Why I Do This Work
Because I’ve been there. Because I know what it feels like to pour out everything you have for others and still feel unseen. Because I believe nurses deserve spaces where they don’t have to be strong all the time.
As a certified Coach through CoachU, BOLD, BARE, and Avalon Empowerment, I bring heart, humor, and hard-earned wisdom into every room I enter. I coach, I speak, I create tools and sacred spaces that help nurses come back to themselves—gently, powerfully, and without apology.
This isn’t just about finding joy. It’s about reclaiming it—in the middle of your story, not just at the end.
I’m here to walk with you. To reflect, reclaim, and REVIVE—together.
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Helping Women Rediscover Joy
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© Dr. JoNeil Conley
Helping Nurses REVIVE
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